One event after the next....

HOUSE:
Not only have we dropped the asking price of our house by at least $20k, now the dreaded property value assessments have arrived and ours has dropped by $19k!!!!!!! Mean while, our neighbor’s only dropped $7k; I totally don’t understand.
Incidentally, according to the paper, the metro Atlanta values dropped a total of $5 BILLION!!!!!!!! The economic news just gets better and better – NOT!

TONY:
Remains in Iraq… got his return flight home at least and is scheduled to arrive on 7/27. We’ll see about that, however, as this is usually changed due to available flights leaving the Middle East, etc. Please, Lord, get him back safely!

XIAN:
As many 13-year-olds, is practically sleeping his summer away. We started out the summer with sleep-over after sleep-over… they’ve apparently gotten sick of one another since those have abruptly stopped! He is back in guitar lessons and spend hours every day practicing.

LILY:
LB’s asthma is under control PTL however, she was involved in a freak accident last Saturday when another little girl doused her with ("100% natural") air freshener spray (basically, citric acid) all over her bathing suit. It proceeded to rapidly burn her skin and put her through excruciating pain!!! It was horrible! According to her Dr, her burns were on the verge of 2nd degree!! She is still recovering from this latest catastrophe… the burn areas are terribly itchy to her :(

MIMI:
Enjoying the extra time spent with her brother and sister and is always the first one to awake every morn. She remains cautious and very, very attached to me. What a joy she is!

ME:
I live to entertain others… don’t get me wrong, I’m blessed to have this role, but it does get monotonous and is completely thankless. I miss my husband terribly and just continue to pray for us to be reunited under one roof. I hope someday I can understand why we’ve been put through this.

US:
We’re expecting our lovely Spanish exchange student, Ricardo again in a few days. He’ll, once again, be with us through the month of July. We have lots of fun things planned.
We’re prepared for another week at the beach while he is here and the best part is that my mom will be joining us – YEAH! We’re all very excited!

Dad's Day 2009

As Father’s Day 2009 is inevitably upon us today, I’ll write once again about how much we truly miss our Tony! I would have never imagined that as we approach our 22nd wedding anniversary we’d continue this pattern of separation that has been such a constant in our life.

I certainly thought that BY NOW, we’d have roots established and could at least temporarily suspend the craziness that comes along with yet another move or absence. I thought I could assuredly count on my kids having our entire family under one roof and having the comforts that we’ve worked so hard for…. not the comforts that may initially come to mind like stuff, things, material possessions, etc…. I’m referring to the comforts that T & I have suffered and sacrificed greatly for ~ such as two parents that love each other, a mom and a dad that -- even though we are far from perfect -- love and cherish our children and put them above all else, the stability that comes along with both parents under one roof, that ‘I-know-I’m-safe’ feeling that kids get when they are falling asleep, knowing they’ll wake up with the structure, support, and continuity that two parents can bring to their lives.

However, this Father’s Day represents something even more special to me. T & I have strived to teach the kids lessons that are more important than any of the above. We’ve tried to live our lives as a representation of how no matter what – God is in control. It is so apparent that neither T nor I have much control over our current situation or we DEFINITELY would have changed something about it by now! And, even though we don’t know why things in our lives are not as we would choose and we don’t know when they will change, we will follow, obey and trust that God will work all of this out for good!

Does that make it easier for any of us today on Dad’s Day?? No, not particularly… we are all human and our human emotions make us cry and feel sad and miss him more than ever…. We love you Tony and we can only hope that you remain safe and that you are soon home and God’s will is for us to all be together again soon!

Happy Father’s Day!!!!

p.s. For those of you that may remember MY dad, the wonderful & mighty Mr. Ken Keck, it has been 13 years that he has been gone. I'm missing him today, too.

LB's GOTCHA Day

LOOK at LB reaching for Xian's hair!!!

How can 5 years have flown by already?

On May 24nd, we celebrated FIVE glorious years since Miss Lily Bean has been in our lives. I vividly remember the emotions I felt as we awaited the escorts to walk them (there were 2 babies being escorted home) off the plane. When LB’s plane landed in Omaha, there apparently was an announcement on the plane before people disembarked. The steward announced that there were 2 babies on the plane that were meeting their forever families for the first time. As people came down that hallway, I wondered why so many of them gawked at us (with our full array of AV equipment) and stopped and waited. We didn’t know an announcement had been made on the plane. WHY didn’t they let these escorts & babies out first then?? :)

Anyway, it seemed to take an eternity and finally here they came! Through the tears, I could make out two babies. We were all shaking and nervous and excited – overwhelmed! Finally, I knew which baby was mine… the beautiful lady escorting her graciously handed her over to me and hugged me tightly. As we tried to soak in the moment, Lily was only interested in ONE thing = Christian’s hair! We figure she had probably never seen blonde, curly hair before.
The other travelers were surrounding us – many were cheering and there were lots of tears... very special!

I’ll save the rest of the novel I could write about what Lily has brought to our lives – all good!!!
We love you dear Lily!

End of the school year

AT LAST!!!!!!!!!

Usually isn't it supposed to be the student who looks forward to this day the most... not in this household! Ugh... this last week has been torture.

I'm so excited to be able to sleep in (for Mimi this means roughly 8 a.m.) and stay up late and no schedules and making time to do things we WANT to do vs. NEED to do.

LB had her pre-K "moving up ceremony" yesterday... very cute! We're definitely going to miss the teachers and some friends we've made there.

This morn, Xian had his Honor's Award Ceremony. He - almost - made straight A's this year (a first)!!! He got a "B" in band!

We started this school year out w/o Daddy and now ended it today w/o Daddy... I pray, for my kids' sake, that this status changes for next school year.

L&M's Ballet Recital

The girls had their ballet recital tonight. PIX & VIDEO BELOW...

Mimi is a graceful, floating swan who can already do point ballet (on her tiptoes).

I would liken Lily to a cutely-dressed lumberjack! She would rather be skateboarding! SO funny!

Xian's (Final) Band Concert

Christian played in what may be his very last band concert. That is unless he gets accepted into percussion next school year. He is officially done w/ the trumpet; just not his ‘thing!’ He'll be taking more guitar lessons this summer.

However, the 6th grade Spring Concert was last week and it was truly amazing to listen to how far they’ve progressed throughout the school year! They were awesome!

When passing out awards, you can see that Christian is nearly as big as the 2 band directors and head & shoulders above the other students! Everyone in the audience got a chuckle over the size different between him and the kid next to him!

Happy Mother's Day

I truly have the B E S T mom in the world!

I could definitely write an entire thesis on what she means to me, but I'll leave it at that.

I'm blessed beyond measure to have her and likewise, to be able to be a mother to my 3 darlings is a treasure I (try to) cherish everyday... somedays are harder than others :)

No really, considering the fact that I didn't really know I even wanted children, I am so honored to be their mom!

They made this Mother's Day poster for me and adapted this song (see pic & video below.)